How to overcome the fear of rejection | face your fear

Introduction

The Fear of Rejection In general, 

We face a lot of fears in our lives. We fear something. These fears have their origin. It is a result of bad experiences in the past. Surely it is a very uncomfortable experience, painful and shocking. As the years go by, you keep avoiding things that may be similar incidents and be very very cautious of not going into that kind of situation again. It will affect the way we think and the way we act. It can also be extended to the way we deal with our relationships with friends, families, and other people we meet every day.

The fear of rejection is a common yet formidable obstacle that can hinder personal and professional growth. Whether it stems from past experiences, societal pressures, or innate insecurities, this fear has the potential to paralyze individuals, preventing them from pursuing opportunities and realizing their full potential. However, by understanding its roots and employing effective strategies, it is possible to overcome this fear and embrace a life of empowerment and resilience.

Understanding the Fear of Rejection:

At its core, the fear of rejection is rooted in the instinctual desire for acceptance and belonging. Humans are social beings, wired to seek approval and validation from others. Rejection, whether real or perceived, threatens this fundamental need, triggering feelings of inadequacy, shame, and unworthiness.

Moreover, past experiences of rejection can exacerbate this fear, creating a cycle of avoidance and self-doubt. Whether it's a romantic rejection, a professional setback, or a social snub, these experiences leave emotional scars that can linger long after the initial incident.

Strategies to Overcome the Fear of Rejection:

1. Cultivate Self-Compassion

2. Recognize that experiencing rejection is a natural part of life, and it does not diminish your worth as a person. Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness and understanding, especially in moments of vulnerability.

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4. Challenge Negative Beliefs

5. Identify and challenge negative beliefs about rejection that may be holding you back. Instead of viewing rejection as a reflection of your inherent flaws or shortcomings, reframe it as an opportunity for growth and learning.

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7. Set Realistic Expectations

8. Understand that not everyone will share your perspective or appreciate your efforts, and that's okay. Set realistic expectations for yourself and others, and accept that rejection is a normal part of the human experience.

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10. Build Resilience

11. Cultivate resilience by developing coping mechanisms to navigate setbacks and disappointments. Engage in activities that promote emotional well-being, such as mindfulness meditation, exercise, or creative expression.

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13. Practice Assertiveness

14. Assertiveness is the antidote to the fear of rejection. By expressing your thoughts, feelings, and needs authentically and respectfully, you empower yourself to advocate for what you want without fear of judgment or rejection.

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16. Celebrate Courageous Action

17. Acknowledge and celebrate your courage every time you confront the fear of rejection and take action despite it. Whether it's asking for a raise, expressing your feelings to a loved one, or pursuing a new opportunity, every step forward is a triumph of resilience and self-empowerment.

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19. Seek Support

20. Surround yourself with supportive individuals who uplift and encourage you. Whether it's friends, family, or a therapist, having a strong support system can provide validation and perspective during challenging times.

On The Business Aspect

On the business side, this can also be considered one of the major reasons why people are not going in this direction. They may have found comfort in their day-to-day job and end-of-month salaries. Satisfied, living within their means, and relying on what will come each day. 

The majority will really agree, therefore, any people who are doing the business, especially Direct Selling, will experience so much force to not pursue their journey. It is all against the odds, just like going in the opposite direction where the majority of people look for a JOB instead of looking for a Business to start.

As a beginner, this scenario can also cause you to FEAR. The most familiar is the Fear of REJECTION!

How do you face your fear?
If you are new to Direct Selling, you will really face the greatest REJECTION of all. People you are going to deal with are not open to such kind of opportunities and oftentimes you will be regarded as a SCAMMER. Don't let this force control you or stop you. It is the acid test for the business because you are dealing with the MINDSET programmed differently from yours. Just like dealing with electricity, for example, you cannot mix 110 volts to 220 volts. It will really explode. That is the kind of Rejection you are going to face. But if you learn the business and know how they think, you will understand the reason behind it and know the right candidate to invite and know how you can deal with them. Just like fear, Fear has brought people a lot of defense mechanisms so that when they encounter seemingly similar situations, they can be on guard all the time. 
Rejection deals with your emotions. Most people starting with this kind of business who have not learned to face these oftentimes get more likely to quit. 
Learning the business means you have to understand the ABC basics. New Distributors are advised to attend the training in NDO (New Distributors Orientation). So that they will know the deepest purpose of why you are doing the business. This is a completely different kind of business that will have to face the most difficult tasks because you are going to go against the odds. 
People are usually overwhelmed by the Marketing Plan and are looking ahead of time for Success. Realizing that this is a real business. We need real work which may require hard work and smart work. Like any other business, it does not come overnight. The road ahead will be long. Keeping yourself focused on the deepest and most compelling reason why we are doing the business will help us reach the end of the tunnel.
Every successful ending has a painful Story. Let those painful stories serve as an inspiration and the Successes be the motivation for those who are getting started. You are not alone in this venture. You have those successful people looking at you and giving their helping hand because they know what it is that we are going through, They have found the right formula for Success. Which, they want you to know and understand, that is, Overcoming your greatest FEAR!
Looking Deeply
Fear is not actually to be feared at all! Fear is developed within us because this is a result of our past failures. It deals with our emotions and, oftentimes. dwelling with it may lead us to become passive and conclusive to what is not known. Our past failure becomes our guiding principle to never want to do any venture anymore. When you fail in one company, it does not mean you will fail again in another company. Let those experiences be our guide to be wise with our decision, but don't let it discourage us to not wanting to try again. When we don't take action, we dwell much on what we feel rather than on what we want to do. Looking deeply, Fear makes us scared of something that is not really known to us because we have not overcome past failures. It really controls the way we think and the way we take action or no action at all. 

How do we define FEAR now?

FEAR can be defined as False Emotion Appearing Real. When we think of something that is not happening, and we fear, that is just an emotion. It appears to be real because we have already placed in our thoughts that this is true. The next time we encounter our fear, two things may lead us. 
We may FEAR - Face Everything And Run or  we may FEAR - Face Everything And Rise! 

Which one will you choose?

If you want to become successful, starting your journey will give you a lot of learning inspiration from those who have overcome their greatest FEAR. They managed to face their emotions, and are now enjoying the greatest success in their life. If I were to ask you, which one would you follow?

Conclusion:

Overcoming the fear of rejection is not an overnight process, but with patience, persistence, and self-compassion, it is possible to break free from its grip and embrace a life of courage, authenticity, and fulfillment. By understanding the roots of this fear, challenging negative beliefs, and cultivating resilience, individuals can navigate setbacks with grace and emerge stronger and more empowered than ever before. So take that leap of faith, knowing that rejection is not a reflection of your worth, but rather an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.
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Be the Boss of your Own | Stop Working for others

How would you like to work on your own rather than working for somebody else?

Employment is good and there is nothing wrong with it especially when you are getting started. working for your Boss at the initial stage s good and well recommended. 

Different companies have different types of boss.  Some are good and some are bad. Working for them gives us better understanding of how we will manage to have our own someday.  Make that experience as a stepping stone towards your journey to be the Boss of your Own!

As a piece of advise, remain employed within the next 3 to five years of your early career, but beyond that, you must consider establishing your own business. That means, by the time you got employed, save some for you start up capital. You don't need to have big money to start a business. 

Steps towards starting your own Business

1. You need to Plan Ahead 

2. Determine what kind of Business you need to start

3. Determine How much money you need to invest

4. Create a saving plan

5. Learn how to do it 

Learning is the key. With the right knowledge, you 

6. Start your "Day 1" 

Any type of business have their beginnings, starting your Day 1 is the first step in raching out for your Dreams. In fact, this will be your inspiration to keep you going. 

You must have a clear vision as to where you would want to go. 

When you start your Day 1, 

That journey should be enjoyable and result oriented. Set some goals for you to achieve in a span of time. Remember, goals are dreams with a time frame. Don't let your dreams stay as a dream. Have the compassion to do it diligently. That day will be true when you started your journey with one step ahead. Instead of Dreaming for One Day, you need to take action with your Day 1.

When you have started, 

you must think agaain and go back to basics. 

Determine your deepest "WHY?"

Your Deepest Why will drive you more and more to achieving your dreams!

Here's the article I have written about knowing the most compelling reason why you need to do the business, "KNOWING YOUR DEEPEST WHY?"

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Start an Online Business | A Step-by-Step Guide

How to Start an online Business?

There are ways to help you start an online business. To help you get started, you need to get an overview of what it is to do an online business with no money or little investment. Getting started is one of the many stages you will encounter as you go along. Our training program LEARN and BUILD is a good way to start your starting point. As you are reading this blog, you are already getting the first training we have. Yes this is part of the learning. You will learn mire as we discuss more detailed topics on our training program. 
There are 3 main key points in this training program;

1. How to get started
2. Running your business
3. Sustaining and Growing your income

Getting started involves decision making so we will refer you to our topic “How to make a Good Decision” this will guide you in making the right choice. This is a business that needs time and effort where we combine learning the skills you need and building the business at the same time.

Running the business is the next key point where you will be equipped with skills you need to keep your learning and with the corresponding tasks to do each step of the way, that way, your business is running and you will start to get a small income that can eventually grow with our system in place. There are 5 Skills you need to run an online business successfully.  Part of the learning process is the online marketing which we will discuss here. 

Early Retirement Plan | A five-year plan

Do you want to enjoy your retirement early? 

Enjoying the precious time with your family instead of spending much time away with them because you need to work hard?

You can only do that when you gain much earnings, which, I believe is what you are aiming for that is why you took the risks of going abroad, right?

You decided to be away from your family to earn better income. But Have you realized that with employment, very rare that you will achieve more earnings if you are planning to stay away for 5 years, ten years or 20 years...make a reality check, numbers will never lie. Calculate how much you can earn in your current job and you can project how much will be in your hand when you are deciding to leave your employment.

Say you are Saving $100 per month

If you are planning to stay in 5 years time?

how much will you earn?




$100 x 12 (months) = $1,200 per year x 5 years = $6,000


In 10 years time

                                    $1,200 x 10 years =  $12,000

In 20 years Time



                                     $1,200 x 20 = $24,000

In 40 years Time

                                     $1,200 x 40 = $48,000

You will be saving $6,000 in 5 years, $12,000 in 10 years and $24,000 in 20 years and $48,000 in 40 years ( that is if you start working at age 20 and retire at age 60).







This is your basis if you will save $100 per month, the question is, are you able to save $100?, if you can add more then you can have a feasibility of your savings in the next 5 to 40 years of being employed.

Want to save much time and retire early? 

Why not start a business while employed, do it at your extra time and work smart.
If you can save $100 per month, you can start planning ahead to do a business with AimGlobal. You only need a minimum amount of money to be registered and become a business owner in a ver small start-up capital. You need at least $300 to start.


You dan choose whether you want to do the Online/offline Business or the Online Business module.

The Online/Offline business module is Aim Global

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To become a registered member of Aim Global, you need to buy the Global Package. Wherever you are, you can still register. We will deliver the product to you or if you are residing in countries with our business centers, that will be an advantage!

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The Online Business Module is AimWorld

You can Watch the Video presentation of our unique product with a Triple patent in the US

You can buy the Starter package and get registered

Retire early and commit yourself to learning how to do the business in the next 5 years, I guarantee that you will never regret starting your business with Aim Global.

To get familiar with the system and how the business works, you can join our facebook team and get connected with us. This will help you get more knowledge about the business. Plus, you will be connected with us. We would love to get engaged with you and guide you all the way. From the time you will have your training on the Opportunity Plan Presentation, to becoming  registered member of Aim Global or AimWorld business modules. We will be guiding you even up to the time you will start the business and become successful!

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What can you do with $288?

Many people are thinking about starting a business and get away with employment. Mostly, they are thinking of huge amount of money to get started. It's true with traditional business, like having a grocery store or any other business venture. You must consider so many things before you can start your own.

What if I will tell you that you can start with $288, would you believe?

You can consider all those who are big business owners right now, they all started small!

What can you do with $288?

You will have a product package for you to start reselling. The products inside is worth $440!

This is a good value for money. Reselling these products will give you a profit of $52!

Plus, you will become an International Distributor of AimWorld Business. 

That means, you already own a business!  

• You don't have to worry about applying for business permit. 
• No need to rent a space for product inventory. 
• No need to hire staff , you can do direct selling and at the comfort of your home.
• You don't need to leave your day job, you can do the business online and at your free time

That's what you can start with $288!

Let us say, you will save $5 a day, in about 60 days, you can have $300!
And that's a better way to start a business.

Why not start saving now and buy the package after 60 days

What other benefits you will get with $288?

Upon purchase of the package, you will automatically become an International Distributor. You will become a registered member of ALLIANCE IN MOTION ( AIM ) Global Networks. you will be Joining a network of international Distributors around the world.

A company that is 12 years old, with 2 Guinness World Book of Records!

Plus other achievements starting from Philippines, to Asia to the world!

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These are the Benefits you will get when you buy our Aim World Global Package

1. You will receive Member's Id with Tracking Number
2. You will be entitled for a 25% to 50% Lifetime Discount on product reorders
3. You will have your own website
4. You will earn in 9 different ways
5. You will have a business kit
6. You will be entitled for a Travel Incentives
7. You will have a lifetime Free Training Online
8. and many other benefits

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5 Rules for Success | by Arnold Schwarzenneger

Looking for ways to achieve your dreams, you must get inspiration from successful people who have set the rules for success to achieved it. People who has the full authority because they are not just merely talking but has proven results of what they say.
In our business, we keep learning and following from people who are successful. We are getting more relevant information on how they have done it and draw out principles for our own success.

 Here, we can get wisdom from one of the most successful person, Arnold Schwarrzenneger, who have set the 5 rules for success in business to give motivation and inspiration to all of us. He is a multi-award achiever in the International film and movie industry, and a very successful in his political career.

Here's what he has to say to all of us.

The 5 Rules for success of Arnold Schwarzenneger:

1. Find Your Vision & Follow It

2. Never ever Think Small

3. Ignore the Naysayers

4. Work your Ass Off

5. Don't just take, Give Back

Here's the Video of his 5 Rules for success and get inspired!

What is your Vision?

This is the first rule for Success - A Vision
A Vision is the faculty of state of being able to see, the ability to think about or plan the future with imagination or wisdom.

This is where it should start! Have a vision and follow it. Doing the business will give us the same result, when you focus on the things that you want to achieve. This is what will make your reason more objective and don't look at the money side but on the way you want to improve your life.

Aim Global gives you the proper tool to achieve those visions, but the most important person is YOU!

Have that target in mind and keep working on it until it becomes part of your life.

Never Think Small

The reason why you are not improving is that you have the so-called "employee mentality". As you enter into Entrepreneurship, your mindset should be change too. Our mental capacity to think of having success is in the way we think of ourselves. Thinking big is thinking ahead. This goes with our ability to work and respond to our situation.

The main reason why we think small is that we have our mentality dictates it. Some want to earn big but their "Mental Wallet" is small. Dream big and Achieve It.

How do you Face Discouragement?

They will always be there, especially when you are starting and struggling to show result.These are the Naysayers according to Arnold. People will always discourage you, often laughed at you and say, you "cannot do that"or "are you out of your mind?". The word here is IGNORE them!

Keep working and do it daily. Improve yourself and get right on your target. What you SOW is what you REAP. You will see the benefit later. Only then people will be humbled by your TRUE SUCCESS.

Discipline yourself and Work Consistently

Discipline is really needed, there is no way but up, but you will also take the step forward. Make sure you are doing things right and do it everyday.

Part of this is your character building. There is no easy way, but you will be rewarded by your diligent work and consistency.

Give Back and Help Others

The best person that can help other people who are struggling are those who have experience being in that situation. Remember where you came from and pull someone up. Helping others is our social and moral responsibility. Give Back and teach others what you have done.

Most of all Give back the Glory to God the Father in Heaven!

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Learn and Build your business with us. Learn everything you need and start building with our guidance and support. If you don't know where to start, this is a wonderful opportunity for you to get all the very basic, no commitment, but getting all the necessary knowledge to prepare you for the success of your business online.

Be action taker and make that vision into reality.

5 Signs that you are not ready to be an Entrepreneur | The Qualification

Are you Qualified?

This will help you understand the qualities of being an Entrepreneur. Do you want to know?

Here's what you need to look at when you are considering to walk the journey to Entrepreneurship.

1. Are you Open to New Ideas?
2. Are you ready to take Responsibility?
3. Are you Satisfied with your Current Job?
4. Are you Stressful?
5. Are afraid to Fail?

Being Open to New Ideas

 Entrepreneurship is a change of Mindset. It is going against the Herd Mentality. It means it is not employment. Where majority of people look for their source of income in the Employment. Many would like to start a business but are not skillful in the means to produce income other than what employment can give.

Innovation is the key element in opening yourself to new ideas. Learn how to try new things in the way you promote the business.

Be Ready to Take Responsibility

Business would require much responsibility.Working extra hours when others are already taking a rest. Or even Waking up earlier to set up all things you need to get ahead of the situation.

Responsibility should extend to challenging yourself into forcing yourself to produce something each day. Starting a business is a big challenge.Being responsible is making things happen. 

Being Satisfied with your Current Job

If you are receiving a good pay, you don't need to look for other means of income. 

Low Stress Threshold

The business is Stressful, you need to learn the art and enjoy the journey. Desperately earning money is different from enjoying what you do and earning from it. This will include meeting new people, helping them and maintain relationship. Even if they won't join you, they are still potential to your business. 

Afraid to Fail

Failures are the biggest teachers. This will open to new innovations, being careful of what to do next and learning wisdom from the experience. It is not actually a failure but ways to improve your craft.

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